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If You Love Me… You Will ‘ ???’ How to Express Yourself in A Relationship & What Not to Say!

By Sabeen Sharaf

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February 12, 2023
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Expressiveness in a relationship is the act of openly and honestly sharing one’s thoughts, feelings, and needs with a partner. In a healthy relationship, both partners should feel comfortable and encouraged to express themselves freely. It is important because it allows partners to understand each other’s perspectives, needs, and boundaries. The relationship can become stronger when both partners feel heard and validated, as trust, empathy, and mutual respect grow. Moreover, expressing oneself helps reduce feelings of frustration, resentment, and bottled-up emotions that could potentially harm the relationship. However, being expressive in a relationship is not always easy. People may have been socialized to repress their emotions or fear the consequences of vulnerability with their partner. In such cases, it is important to create a safe space in which partners feel comfortable expressing themselves. To foster a culture of expressiveness in a relationship, partners should practice active listening, meaning truly hearing what the other person is saying without judgment or interruption. Additionally, partners should express gratitude and appreciation for each other’s efforts to be expressive. Expressiveness can also involve setting boundaries and communicating needs clearly. It’s important to remember that both partners should feel heard and valued in the relationship, so it’s crucial to respectfully listen and respond to each other’s needs.


THINGS NOT TO SAY IN A RELATIONSHIP!
In a relationship, certain words or phrases can cause harm and harm the trust and intimacy that partners have built. Here are some things to avoid saying in a relationship:
INSULTS OR PUT-DOWNS:
Avoid using words that demean or insult your partner, such as name-calling, sarcasm, or belittling comments.

BLAME OR ACCUSATIONS:
Instead of placing blame, try to approach conflicts with a focus on finding a solution together.
THREATS:
Threats, whether they are empty or not, can harm a relationship and create an environment of fear and mistrust.
ULTIMATUMS:
Giving ultimatums can be seen as controlling and disrespectful, and may cause more harm than good.
PERSONAL ATTACKS:
Avoid making comments that attack your partner’s character, appearance, or personal values.
COMPARING YOUR PARTNER TO OTHERS: Comparing your partner to someone else, whether it’s a previous partner, a celebrity, or a friend, can be hurtful and undermine their self-esteem.
SAYING “I TOLD YOU SO”:
Saying this in a critical or judgmental tone can make your partner feel small and unvalued.
Withholding affection: Using affection or physical touch as a tool to manipulate or punish your partner is harmful and should be avoided.

BRINGING UP THE PAST:
Holding onto past mistakes or grudges can prevent a relationship from moving forward. Focus on the present and finding solutions for current problems.
Remember, communication is key in any relationship, and choosing your words carefully can help strengthen the bond between you and your partner. If you’re feeling upset or hurt, take a moment to reflect on your words before speaking. Finally, it is important to remember that being expressive in a relationship is a process that takes time and effort from both partners. Couples should make a conscious effort to regularly communicate and check in with each other. Expressiveness is an essential aspect of a healthy relationship. It helps partners understand each other, build trust, and foster mutual respect. By actively listening, setting boundaries, and prioritizing communication, partners can cultivate a supportive and expressive relationship that lasts.

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